Expectations- The ultimate key to getting hurt
Well, isn't it? We expect from people and they expect from us but expectations never meet reality upto each and every point.
Expectations can be pretty unrealisitic at many times. No matter what you do and how much you do for someone, there will still be something that will lack.
You can go out of the way to fulfill the expectations of family, friends, acquaintances, collegues, everybody else, then too they will never be happy or satisfied with you fully. When time comes they will only make you remember that you were not able to do a particular thing for them and forget all the good things you have done for them.
Sometimes, those people also expect from you from whom you have least expected from and that is unfathomable. We are humans, no matter how much we say we are not selfish or how much we try not to be, we still are selfish. We do things for those people only from whom we expect things in return. If a person is not ready to do anything for us, we do not do anything for them. Tit for tat, that is how things work in today's world.
It is absolutely true that no expectations keep you happy but in reality it is the most impossible thing to do. Though we might pretend we are cool and shit but deep down we can't control who we expect from and what we expect from them.
Expectations can be pretty unrealisitic at many times. No matter what you do and how much you do for someone, there will still be something that will lack.
You can go out of the way to fulfill the expectations of family, friends, acquaintances, collegues, everybody else, then too they will never be happy or satisfied with you fully. When time comes they will only make you remember that you were not able to do a particular thing for them and forget all the good things you have done for them.
Sometimes, those people also expect from you from whom you have least expected from and that is unfathomable. We are humans, no matter how much we say we are not selfish or how much we try not to be, we still are selfish. We do things for those people only from whom we expect things in return. If a person is not ready to do anything for us, we do not do anything for them. Tit for tat, that is how things work in today's world.
It is absolutely true that no expectations keep you happy but in reality it is the most impossible thing to do. Though we might pretend we are cool and shit but deep down we can't control who we expect from and what we expect from them.
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