8 signs he is definitely not interested in you

1. The way he looks at you

Sometimes, actually many times, we misinterpret that the way he looks at us might be a sign that he is into us. And the looks include intense ones, affectionate ones, staring deeply into your eyes. Ladies! This doesn't mean he likes you like that. You are just maybe misunderstanding things.

2. Calling/Texting

Are you the one always texts and calls him first and not even once he texts or calls you? Then yes, he is not into you. Men love talking to the women they like. They literally wait for them to come online. Not to forget the fact that he never returns your calls or texts even when he said he would.

3. Flirting

Sure, flirting with you might be a sign that he is into you but if the guy is flirting with other girls in front of you as well as behind your back then he is an asshole, period.

4. Jealousy

Men tend to get jealous too. A man who is interested in you will pay attention when you mention other men. They do feel insecure of competition. If he doesn't react at all when you mention other men or talk to them then he is definitely not into you.

5. Efforts 

He never does anything special for you. He treats you like every other person in his life. A cake on your birthday or a jacket when you are cold might just be a sign that he thinks of you as a friend. Asking if you reached home safely might also be a sign that you are his friend. Don't confuse his friendliness for a budding romance.

6. Listening/Remembering

If he closely listens to what you talk about (especially other men in your life as mentioned earlier) and actually remembers minute details about you or related to you then he actually is into you, otherwise, not.

7. Convenience

Being interested doesn't mean talking to you or spending time with you only when its convenient for him or when you are with your group of friends or when you initiate it but when the guy actually initiates plans with you and spends quality time with when both of you wish to.

8. Your Feeling

Mostly, your gut feeling is always right. if you have the slightest doubt that he is not interested in you like that then maybe you are right. Deep inside, if you feel he is not the one for you then maybe you are correct.