Wolf in Sheep Skin

We all know what exactly an asshole person means but have you ever wondered that there might be types of assholes. Ok, let me elaborate- there are basically two types of assholes. One who are, well, assholes- they are assholes and act like assholes and then there is the second type of assholes, the worst kind. The ones who are assholes through and through but will most of the times behave like pseudo nice people. And the thing is, you might be able to recognise them at the back of your head, they might even say to you that they are not nice people but in addition to that, they will do some things like you know drive all the way to spend time with you, will want to spend all their time with you, show you a good amount of care and concern and lo and behold, you would ignore all the red flags they show you, even their statements itself and due to some weird bob the builder complex, think that they are different from other people or you can fix them or something.

Even when they will not be talking about sex and pushing you for it (which is a pretty huge ask in today’s world), they might still be hung up on their exes and lead you on, will get possessive and controlling as per their own convenience, will ask you see other people and get mad when you do, will get offended and irritated over petty things, compare you to their exes all the time, talk about their ex and other girls so much but if you do the same then continue to dismiss your quite relevant anger, behave narcissistically and throw it on your face about how many “options” they have but they are with you and basically give you all sorts of mixed signals as per their own convenience, compare you to their exes all the time, talk about their ex and other girls so much and yet you would think they are better than the other guys you have met. Why? Because “omg, this guy is so not into sex sex sex”. 

I would say this that girls generally are emotional and insecure, way more than guys so they tend to ignore all the red flags owing to one deal breaker which they have never found in any of the guys before and think that they will never find another guy like this pseudo nice guy/actual asshole which is what is extremely toxic and being beware of such wolf in sheep skin should be your ultimate goal, ladies. Because an actual asshole will be on asshole to your face and you will expect the same from them but these pseoud